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| Sign at the Sisters of Loretto Motherhouse in Nerinx, Kentucky |
My first reaction when I saw the sign at the Motherhouse, a sign that has stood for years, well before the current crisis for immigrants and DACA recipients, was to marvel at how it resembled the Black Lives Matter sign my congregation in New Jersey had posted, repaired, and reposted, numerous times, after it was defiled, run over, painted over, and destroyed. Each time, we chose to leave it up for a good while as an uncomfortable witness: this is how far people will go with hate.
In this deeply Catholic community, even the words of Christ can't be protected from vandals when it comes to hate.
Earlier this week, the Sisters of Loretto and the Dominican sisters of St. Catharine held a vigil in solidarity with DACA recipients and other victims of the mass deportations. Pansy and Pupcake and I were encouraged to come. Then on Saturday night, they organized a dinner, at which the Lantinx community and allies were invited, and spread amongst the tables, where we were able to tell our stories while we were deeply listened to. Above is Sister Elaine des Rosiers, a special friend of mine, whom I met about five years ago at a Buddhist group I attend, chatting with Pupcake.
Pansy tells her story to the Sisters
It was one of the most lovely evenings I've had in quite some time. Have you ever been deeply listened to? If so, you know what it means. The gift of love, acceptance, community, prayers, camaraderie, hope and shared empathy has boosted Pansy's spirits immeasurably. Working together with the Dreamers has helped her feel less isolated.
I think she'd feel more encouraged by 500 gifts of $1 than by one gift of $500. She's well aware that people "love" the Dreamers, but for some reason don't "love" her or Big Daddy (Benjamin.) Why?
Members of the Democratic Women's Club at the Vigil
One of the Dreamers from our community speaks to the Press.
Pansy and Keeland (Pupcake) at the Vigil
Vigil at the St. Catharine Motherhouse.
One of the things we've talked about a great deal is how much the current situation is like the Holocaust, the Internment of the Japanese, or the Trail of Tears and forced imprisonment of Native Americans on reservations. If you think, "No, it's not as bad" ... please examine your thoughts. Just like in slavery, families will be torn apart. Just like in the Holocaust, people will be killed. No, not as dramatically, but in many ways, slowly and sporadically, as they are targeted by the cartels who prey on those who have been in the US for long periods.
Our country has lured immigrants from Central America (and elsewhere) here with low-paying jobs, and have taken advantage of their work ethic, their desperation to feed their families back home, and their terror of returning to places that are overrun with deadly gangs and cartels. And yet, we turn our backs on them when our government decides to treat them worse than animals. Benjamin has been IN PRISON for seven months, although he has no criminal record.
So, you are not in favor of this? You love all people the same? Even Black and Brown people?
Nine people have contributed to help Pansy's family in this crisis. It may not be as harsh as the hole in the sign, but it speaks volumes. What do we mean when we say, "love"?
Another way to help is to donate to Dollars for the Dream via United We Dream on Facebook. It will be so deeply appreciated. Even if you can't or won't, pause and think with gratitude on the freedoms you have every day.
Words
by John Keene
When you said people did you mean punish?
When you said friend did you mean fraud?
When you said thought did you mean terror?
When you said connection did you mean con?
When you said God did you mean greed?
When you said faith did you mean fanatic?
When you said hope did you mean hype?
When you said unity did you mean enmity?
When you said freedom did you mean forfeit?
When you said law did you mean lie?
When you said truth did you mean treason?
When you said feeling did you mean fool?
When you said together did you mean token?
When you said desire did you mean desert?
When you said sex did you mean savagery?
When you said need did you mean nought?
When you said blood did you mean bought?
When you said heart did you you hard?
When you said head did you mean hide?
When you said health did you mean hurt?
When you said love did you mean loss?
When you said fate did you mean fight?
When you said destiny did you mean decimate?
When you said honor did you mean hunger?
When you said bread did you mean broke?
When you said feast did you mean fast?
When you said first did you mean forgotten?
When you said last did you mean least?
When you said woman did you mean wither?
When you said man did you mean master?
When you said mother did you mean smother?
When you said father did you mean fatal?
When you said sister did you mean surrender?
When you said brother did you mean brutal?
When you said fellow did you mean follow?
When you said couple did you mean capital?
When you said family did you mean failure?
When you said mankind did you mean market?
When you said society did you mean sickness?
When you said democracy did you mean indignity?
When you said equality did you mean empty?
When you said politics did you mean power?
When you said left did you mean lost?
When you said right did you mean might?
When you said republic did you mean rich?
When you said wealthy did you mean wall?
When you said poor did you mean prison?
When you said justice did you mean just us?
When you said immigrant did you mean enemy?
When you said refugee did you mean refusal?
When you said earth did you mean ownership?
When you said soil did you mean oil?
When you said community did you mean conflict?
When you said safety did you mean suspicion?
When you said security did you mean sabotage?
When you said army did you mean Armageddon?
When you said white did you mean welcome?
When you said black did you mean back?
When you said yellow did you mean yield?
When you said brown did you mean down?
When you said we did you mean war?
When you said you did you mean useless?
When you said she did you mean suffer?
When you said he did you mean horror?
When you said they did you mean threat?
When you said I did you mean island?
When you said tribe did you mean trouble?
When you said name did you mean nobody?
When you said news did you mean nonsense?
When you said media did you mean miasma?
When you said success did you mean sucker?
When you said fame did you mean game?
When you said ideal did you mean idol?
When you said yesterday did you mean travesty?
When you said today did you mean doomsday?
When you said tomorrow did you mean never?
When you said hear did you mean hush?
When you said listen did you mean limit?
When you said write did you mean wound?
When you said read did you mean retreat?
When you said literacy did you mean apathy?
When you said fiction did you mean forget?
When you said poetry did you mean passivity?
When you say art do you mean act?
When you said friend did you mean fraud?
When you said thought did you mean terror?
When you said connection did you mean con?
When you said God did you mean greed?
When you said faith did you mean fanatic?
When you said hope did you mean hype?
When you said unity did you mean enmity?
When you said freedom did you mean forfeit?
When you said law did you mean lie?
When you said truth did you mean treason?
When you said feeling did you mean fool?
When you said together did you mean token?
When you said desire did you mean desert?
When you said sex did you mean savagery?
When you said need did you mean nought?
When you said blood did you mean bought?
When you said heart did you you hard?
When you said head did you mean hide?
When you said health did you mean hurt?
When you said love did you mean loss?
When you said fate did you mean fight?
When you said destiny did you mean decimate?
When you said honor did you mean hunger?
When you said bread did you mean broke?
When you said feast did you mean fast?
When you said first did you mean forgotten?
When you said last did you mean least?
When you said woman did you mean wither?
When you said man did you mean master?
When you said mother did you mean smother?
When you said father did you mean fatal?
When you said sister did you mean surrender?
When you said brother did you mean brutal?
When you said fellow did you mean follow?
When you said couple did you mean capital?
When you said family did you mean failure?
When you said mankind did you mean market?
When you said society did you mean sickness?
When you said democracy did you mean indignity?
When you said equality did you mean empty?
When you said politics did you mean power?
When you said left did you mean lost?
When you said right did you mean might?
When you said republic did you mean rich?
When you said wealthy did you mean wall?
When you said poor did you mean prison?
When you said justice did you mean just us?
When you said immigrant did you mean enemy?
When you said refugee did you mean refusal?
When you said earth did you mean ownership?
When you said soil did you mean oil?
When you said community did you mean conflict?
When you said safety did you mean suspicion?
When you said security did you mean sabotage?
When you said army did you mean Armageddon?
When you said white did you mean welcome?
When you said black did you mean back?
When you said yellow did you mean yield?
When you said brown did you mean down?
When you said we did you mean war?
When you said you did you mean useless?
When you said she did you mean suffer?
When you said he did you mean horror?
When you said they did you mean threat?
When you said I did you mean island?
When you said tribe did you mean trouble?
When you said name did you mean nobody?
When you said news did you mean nonsense?
When you said media did you mean miasma?
When you said success did you mean sucker?
When you said fame did you mean game?
When you said ideal did you mean idol?
When you said yesterday did you mean travesty?
When you said today did you mean doomsday?
When you said tomorrow did you mean never?
When you said hear did you mean hush?
When you said listen did you mean limit?
When you said write did you mean wound?
When you said read did you mean retreat?
When you said literacy did you mean apathy?
When you said fiction did you mean forget?
When you said poetry did you mean passivity?
When you say art do you mean act?
